Research Finding Reveals :
TheSurprising Science Behind Why Men Are Instinctively Drawn To Particular Women
(And constantly reject or neglect others).
All her life, Tanya was constantly told she was "amazing ", "beautiful inside and out ", "amazing ", and "dream girlfriend material" by the men she'd been in relationships with ...
But all their kind and reassuring words actually made her feel bad .
Because the the reality was :.
No matter how fantastic they CLAIMED she was, they still weren't CHOOSING herfor the long-term .
To Tanya, this suggested those guys were either lying , or there was something else she was doing wrong : something so repulsive they could not bring themselves to build a relationship her.
"It made me feel damaged " she said . "Why am I never ever enough for the men I really want ?".
"I just want someone to want me".
The problem of what makes a person select a specific woman while not feeling it with others has plagued women for all of time .
And researchers may finally have an answer .
According to new research findings released in the scientific journal, "Archives of Sexual Behavior"*, men are not attracted to women based on "rational reasons".
As dating and relationship coach Clayton Max told us, "It's not about ticking off the criteria on a man's list of a 'ideal woman '. And a woman can not convince men to want to be with her".
From what I've seen , Max says , when a woman tries to persuade a guy , put pressure on him , or show him how amazing she is, it's more than likely to backfire, as behaviors like this signal the reverse of what makes men confidently sure a particular woman is the one for him.
"The reality is" according to Max, "males choose partners based on whether they do one specific thing :.
They go with partners who set off the instinctive feeling of INFATUATION".
Psychologists have found that infatuation originates from a primal instinct deep within the brain ...
And for males , it's either on or it's not .
When a guy's infatuation response is ON , it doesn't matter if a woman has any of the criteria he identified as his 'perfect match' .
They might be entirely 'incompatible' theoretically , but he'll make time for her. He'll move cities for her . .
Because the Infatuation Instinct essentially causes him to ignore everything else other than making her his .
So how does a woman turn on his Infatuation Impulse ... to make him so overwhelmed with desire for her he's willing to do absolutely anything to convince her how much he wants her?
Check out the Comprehensive Video to found out now .
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